Why do people 'work'? Why do people do things that take energy, attention and free time?
Each strategy is an attempt to fulfil one or more needs. Which needs (if any) are not sufficiently fulfilled at this moment when it comes to your work? Is it easier to understand (and accept) that your partner works so much, when you know which needs she / he is trying to fulfil with it?
|What do you need? What do you 'really' need? This is probably one of the most
important questions asked by coaches, therapists, mediators and anyone who is
interested in the well-being of others. The first answers you will often hear
Strategies play an important role in creating a 'better' life both for you and others. The Strategy Cards can be used to:
We selected 15 strategies that are often used for a longer period and are often used to fulfil several needs. We included 3 'challenging periods of time' (beginning, crisis and end). On the backside of each card you can find a selection of needs that might be connected to this strategy or challenging period.
The Strategy Cards were designed as an expansion to the 'Deck of Needs'. Each underlined words is a word on one of the cards in the Deck of Needs. The colour of the line matches the colour of that card. This allows you to quickly find a set of cards connected to this strategy or challenging period of time. The example on the right shows that the Strategy Cards can also be used separately.
|When I first showed the picture above many people told me 'sex' is a 'need'. Many NVC-trainers including Marshall Rosenberg put 'sexual expression' on their list of needs. I believe it can be both a need and a strategy. In the Flower of Needs you will find sexuality as one of the 'physical needs'. Feel free to use it as a need. The words on the backside can also be used to get a deeper understanding when you see sex as a need.|
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